Are we forcing the 'us', or is it still natural?
Are we forcing 'me' when it isn't natural, or is it still natural?
Are we avoiding plurality things or embracing them?
Are we afraid of separation or afraid of too blended?
Is too blended too close to us being merged or is it too close to us all being distinct? Ditto for vice-versa.
Are we suppressing anything? Washing away plurality out of not wanting to face it?
We're not thinking clearly.