In fact, one of my staple novels was started largely because of him. He got me into nature in the first place, which spawned my interest in all the myriad of abilities that could be granted from it. Basically every story I've ever written involving animals or plants (which means any geomancy), which is a LOT of stories, can trace their origin back to my interest in nature which he sparked.
I was also as I was heading out the door for tae kwon do asked to do a task I'd normally do during work. I really didn't want to do it, and so, I...basically had to lie, and say, I needed to get home in a hurry, when...I really didn't. It's just that. That wasn't something I should ever have to do, not even during work. A gender-based task.
I felt bad for refusing, but I would feel worse if I did it, and I shouldn't have to feel bad at all and yet here I am.